Why a Will Is One of the Most Caring Things You Can Do
Making a will often feels like something you’ll get to later. But taking the time now brings lasting peace for you and your family. It’s not just about what you leave behind. It’s about helping your loved ones move forward without added stress.
In a place like Kirkland, where neighbors know each other and nature is part of daily life, preparing a will is simply another way to care for those you love. It helps ensure your voice is still present, even when you’re not there to speak for yourself.
Tip 1: Take Inventory of What You Have
Before writing anything down, start by walking through your home and your accounts. This includes your everyday possessions as well as those items that carry emotional weight.
Make a list that covers:
- Property and vehicles
- Bank accounts, retirement plans, life insurance
- Personal belongings (heirlooms, art, quilts, outdoor gear)
- Online accounts and digital photos
Gathering this information in one place brings clarity and can spark helpful conversations.
Tip 2: Pick the Right Person to Carry Out Your Wishes
Your executor is the person responsible for carrying out the instructions in your will. Choose someone you trust to stay level-headed and organized, even during emotional times.
It might be a close friend, a sibling, or an adult child. Just be sure to ask in advance so they understand the role and are willing to take it on.
Tip 3: Spell Out Who Gets What
Many people want everything “split evenly,” but general language like that can lead to confusion. If your granddaughter has always admired your silver bracelet or your nephew loved building things with you, be specific.
In close communities like Kirkland, details matter. A little planning helps keep relationships strong and memories intact.
Tip 4: Think Beyond the Physical
Don’t forget your digital life. Photos, documents, and even playlists stored online can hold deep personal value.
Create a simple list of passwords and accounts with a note on what you’d like done with each one. Let someone know where to find that list. It’s one more way to pass along your story.
Tip 5: Include Plans for Pets
Pets count as family. Whether it’s your golden retriever or the cat curled up in your window seat, make a plan for their care.
You can name a pet guardian in your will and even set aside funds for food and vet visits. Washington state also allows pet trusts for more detailed planning.
Tip 6: Keep It Up to Date and Easy to Find
As your life changes, your will should change too. Review it every year or two, especially after a move, a new grandchild, or other life events.
Once your will is signed, store it in a secure place and tell your executor where to find it. A locked file drawer or fireproof box works well.
You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Some people write a simple will with online tools. Others prefer working with a local attorney for added guidance. There’s no one right way—just the one that works best for your situation.
MorningStar of Kirkland often hosts educational gatherings on planning and wellness. If you’d like help finding a local estate planning professional or joining a future event, our team is happy to assist.
A Gift for the People You Love
Writing a will isn’t about endings. It’s about providing calm and direction. Like preparing for a day out on the lake, a little planning up front helps everything go smoother.
Start small. Make your list. Share a few thoughts with someone you trust. You don’t have to do it all at once. Just take the first step.
About MorningStar of Kirkland
MorningStar of Kirkland offers vibrant Independent Living near the shores of Lake Washington. With a strong sense of community and easy access to local trails, gardens, and cultural spots, we support purposeful living and peace of mind. Whether you’re planning for today or tomorrow, we’re here to walk alongside you.
